The best vibrator for a buzz alone or with a partner, tested by the w&h health team

Our guide can help find the best vibrator for you, with expert insights on choosing the right wand, bullet, rabbit and more

A selection of the best vibrator including picks from Satisfyer, We-Vibe, and Lelo
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The best vibrator will be different for every person. It'll help you out in the bedroom or during your time alone, it's easy to use and hits all the right spots with the minimum effort required - and ultimately, you enjoy using it. However, the road to finding a new favourite may not always run smoothly. 

In 2024, there are so many brands and models to choose from and out of all the best sex toys online, vibrators are the most popular. With single or dual motors tucked away in the base of the toy, they buzz, pulsate or even rotate to stimulate areas like the vagina, clitoris, and other erogenous zones, bringing the user to orgasm. Like us, vibrators come in different shapes and sizes - from tiny bullets to larger-than-life rabbit-shaped vibrating dildos - so there's something for everyone.

To help you find your best vibrator, we've tried and tested various types of vibrators - including rabbits, bullets, wands, and suction toys - and put together a selection from top retailers like Satisfyer, LELO, and We-Vibe to the test. Rated and reviewed by our team of testers, we've categorised each of the vibes, revealed why we love them so much, and spoken to a team of experts to help explain what you need to look for when buying your pick of the bunch.

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Best clitoral vibrator

The best clitoral vibrator will have a lot in common with a bullet vibrator, but there are key differences. Bullets mainly just vibrate at different speeds and in various pulsation patterns while stimulators like these work to simulate oral sex sensations like licking, sucking, and blowing. 

Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3

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1. Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3

Best clitoral vibrator overall

Specifications

Material: ABS plastic, Silicone
Dimensions: 65 x 46 x 164 mm
Charge time: 1.5 hours
Running time: Approx 90 mins
Patterns: 12
Waterproof: Yes
RRP: £67.95

Reasons to buy

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Powerful clitoral stimulation
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App connection for remote use
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Easy navigation
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Sleek design
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Three unique colourways 

Reasons to avoid

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Charger falls off port 

The Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 is the best clitoris-focused sex toy in our opinion, thanks to its innovative design and comfortable handling. It's a toy for solo use as the white silicone head is designed to fit snugly around your clitoris from above, making it difficult for you to miss the perfect spot but harder for a partner to handle. The bulbous handle of the toy makes it very easy to navigate the buttons and hold the device during use.

As well as classic Air Pulse Technology, the Pro 2 Generation 3 offers intense stimulation using Liquid Air Technology, the brand's creation. I tested this toy myself - it does this with the extra cap that has a thin, super-soft silicone layer, creating intense waves that feel like a gentle surge of water. 

Noise-wise, I found the Generation 3 to be ultra-quiet generally, especially on the lower settings, so much so that you wouldn't be able to hear it in the next room. On the higher settings, the vibrator creates more of a mechanical whirring sound than a buzz, so even if someone did hear it, they'd be unlikely to immediately know what it was. Also, while I found the Pro 2 made a sound underwater, the Generation 3 doesn't have this issue so much when the vibrator is in use. 

You can also connect this toy to the Satisfyer Connect app, allowing for external, hands-free control or allowing your partner to take the reigns from another location - whether that's another city or the other room.

While the Generation 3 is more expensive than the standard Pro 2, it's well worth the extra spend if it's in your budget, in my opinion. If this stretches the budget a little too much though, the Satisfyer Pro 2 is an excellent runner-up, offering many of the same features - just with one less vibration mode.

Hot Octopuss Digit Finger Vibrator

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2. Hot Octopuss DiGit

Best mini vibrator

Specifications

Material: PC / Silicone
Dimensions: 87.5mm x 48mm x 31mm
Charge time: 2 hours
Running time: up to 40 mins
Waterproof: Yes
Patterns: 5 speeds, 5 vibration modes
RRP: £59.95

Reasons to buy

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Good for couples
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No charging required
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Easy to hold with plastic ring

Reasons to avoid

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Battery doesn’t last long

A fan of bullet vibrators? Our tester said this was the perfect vibrator to try if you're looking for something a little different with the same look and feel of a bullet. The Hot Octopuss DiGit comes with a choice of six vibrations and speeds and it's perfect for partner play.

When we asked our tester what the main difference was between a vibe like this one of the other bullet vibrators on the market, she said: "It's easier to use for a longer amount of time, when your hands are aching or during sex with a partner. It also has a flared edge that meant the vibrations didn't feel as sharp and direct and offered wider coverage. Thanks to the handy finger strap, when my partner used it on me, it felt like an extension of their hand."

Plus, it packs a punch when it comes to the rumbles it creates, she says. "It’s just a shame the battery doesn’t last for very long before it needs charging, as this has become my best vibrator."

See our tester's full Hot Octopuss DiGit review for a complete overview.

Smile Makers The Poet vibrator

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3. Smile Makers The Poet

Best small clitoral vibrator

Specifications

Material : Silicone
Dimensions: 56mm x 58mm x 90mm
Charge time: max 90 mins
Running time : 90 mins+
Waterproof: Yes
Patterns: 5
RRP: £119

Reasons to buy

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Unique fit for women
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Multiple heads available for individual choice 
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Many vibration modes to choose from
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Easy to control 

Reasons to avoid

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Tricky to clean 
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May be too complex for beginners

I tested The Poet myself and found that it's a real game changer when it comes to how to use a vibrator. For those who know the brand well, this will be unsurprising considering how great other Smile Makers' vibrators are - like The Billionaire and The Artist (also on our list). The suction-style toy pretty much guarantees an orgasm, thanks to its unique design and positioning over the clitoris. 

Smile Makers has taken on board the fact that women come in different shapes - a rarity in this space - and that includes the size and position of their clitoris. The Poet has a unique feature - you can find the closest fit for you with three differently-shaped stimulation heads. Initially, I didn't think this would make much of a difference but the pleasure is a lot more intense when the soft silicone fits snugly around your clitoris. This closer fit means you’ll be more likely to have multiple orgasms, should you want to, but it's not as intense as other vibrators on the list. If you think you have a more sensitive clitoral area, it's worth investing in The Poet rather than Satisfyer's Pro 2 Generation 3, for instance, as the additional heads and the changeability of the vibrator offers more versatility. 

The only downside to The Poet is you have to remove the stimulation head when cleaning, which is a bit more fiddly than some other vibrators. But perhaps I'm being picky. Plus, it can be used in the bath or shower. 

LELO Ora 3, one of the best vibrators

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4. LELO Ora 3

Best clitoral vibrator for targeted stimuation

Specifications

Materials: Silicone, ABS plastic
Dimensions: 3.2 x 3.4 x 1.7 inches
Charge time: 2 hours
Running time: 1 hour
Waterproof: Yes, 100%
Patterns: 12
RRP: £103.99

Reasons to buy

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Easy to use
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Beautiful design
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Focuses on targeted stimulation 
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Multiple colour choices

Reasons to avoid

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Only one hour of running time after charge

The LELO Ora 3 is a circular, sleek vibrator that delivers as much as it looks good. "You could leave this on your kitchen table and no one would know it’s a vibrator," says our tester. "I love the unique circular design with its easy-hold golden handle. It looks premium and the small nub on the top of the toy makes it easy to use as well. This is one of my favourite toys."

While the Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 and Smile Makers Poet are somewhat similar in design to other models, meaning you might have come across them before, everything about this sex toy is unique. It's ideal if you've tried pretty much everything else and are feeling a little bored with your collection. "You have to put your thumb through the centre of the toy in a certain way to use the controls," our tester says. "I found that following the diagram in the instruction booklet was handy, otherwise I would have struggled to immediately know what to do. At first, this feels a little odd but you do get used to the position, and it pays off when you turn the vibrator on."

There are 12 modes to choose from to increase or decrease sensation, and our test found that the sweet spot sits around the third or fourth setting intensity-wise. It's also pretty quiet on the lower settings and although it does get louder, our tester found the sound was easily muffled with a duvet. 

The brand promotes the toy as an oral sex simulator but the jury's still out on that one, she also said. "Its motion is meant to replicate a tongue-like action, like oral sex, but I don't think it does. You have to use lots of lubrication, and there's one that comes in the box with the toy, and lots of imagination to make this work."

See our tester's full Lelo Ora 3 review for more details on this toy. 

We-Vibe Sync 2


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5. We-Vibe Sync 2

Best clitoral vibrator for couples

Specifications

Material: Silicone
Dimensions: 74.8 mm x 31.4 mm x 41.7mm
Charge time: 2 hours
Running time: 120 minutes
Waterproof: Device - yes, remote - no
Patterns: 3 speeds and 7 patterns
RRP : £149.99

Reasons to buy

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2 motors can be controlled independently
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Can be controlled in three ways
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Stimulates both G-spot and clitoris
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Good for sensitivity

Reasons to avoid

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Takes a lot of time to set up 

If you like to use toys in the bedroom with your partner - like our tester - then we have the best vibrator for you. It's also one of the best remote vibrators. The We-Vibe Sync 2 is a dual stimulator, working the clitoris and G-spot when combined with penetration. 

"I wanted to try this vibrator to be comfortable using a toy in different positions in the bedroom as I find I often need clitoral and G-spot stimulation to have an orgasm. This toy has been a revelation! Though it took me a couple of shuffles to get in the right place, the vibrations and deep and rumbling - rather than buzzy - so it complements other activities very well," our tester says. 

With two independent motors in this toy, you can work them together for dual stimulation or individually, targeting the clitoris or G-spot exclusively. It's an all-round winner, being so versatile. 

"It's also really versatile to use, more so than many of the rabbit vibrators I've had, as you can use it standing up and keep it in with just a push of a finger now and then without needing to grapple with the handle."

However, she did note a point to be wary of when using this device: "If you're going to connect to the app, be aware that the connection can be a little inconsistent - I found it to be anyway."

At £149 RRP - less if you can get a deal in the Lovehoney sale - this is a great vibrator at a more premium price point. So, if your budget doesn't quite stretch to this - consider the previous model, the We-Vibe Sync as you get many of the same features at a lower price tag.

LELO Dot vibrator

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6. LELO Dot

Best unique clitoral vibrator

Specifications

Material: Silicone
Dimensions: 90 x 35 x 240 mm
Charge time: 2 hours
Running time: 2 hours
Waterproof: Yes
Patterns: 8
RRP: £78

Reasons to buy

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Pinpointed stimulation
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Simple to use
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Easy to hold
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Sleek design
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Available in multiple colourways 

Reasons to avoid

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Very pinpointed stimulation may not be suitable for everyone

The LELO Dot is one of the most unique vibrators from this premium brand. It has a distinctive circular base and handle, and a pinpoint tip, and it comes in a variety of colourways, giving it a unique exterior appearance. 

These aren't the only features of the Dot that make it an individual on the market right now. It utilises Infinite Loop Technology - an elliptical cycle that moves the point of the vibrator like an infinity symbol or the number eight. 

"This vibrator has many merits - among them are versatility and the device's ability to stimulate multiple external erogenous zones, not just those between the legs. This is a very clever device," says our tester Aoife. 

While this vibrator may be built with a unique design, it's actually a very entry-level toy so it's more than suitable for anyone creating their first collection. As our tester Aoife found when reviewing the LELO Dot, it's so simple to manage and the pinpoint tip can be used directly on the clitoris as well as other erogenous zones on the body - such as the nipples, neck, and inner thighs - for amazing sensations. 

See our full review of the LELO Dot for more details

Lovehoney Ignite vibrator

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7. Lovehoney Ignite 20 Function Vibrating Love Ring

Best vibrating cock ring

Specifications

Material: Silicone
Dimensions: Around 100mm
Charge time: 60 mins
Running time: 180 mins
Waterproof: Submersible
Patterns: 17
RRP: £30

Reasons to buy

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Great for couples
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Comes with a travel pouch
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Hands-free play
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More budget-friendly than other options

Reasons to avoid

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Only three speeds
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Too small for some men

The Lovehoney Ignite 20 Function Vibrating Love Ring is a simple sex toy that delivers on its basic purpose - to be one of the best sex toys for couples. Our tester had their partner wear this around the base of their penis with the two small but perfectly-placed rabbit ears around their clitoris. 

"I loved the rabbit ears on this ring - it offers a lot more than other vibrating cock rings I've tried. There are three different speeds to choose from, which is great and the third one is particularly intense. It's a toy we both reach for in the moment but out of the 17 patterns you can have, I find only the first few are regularly used. Anything past that can be a bit much during penetrative sex," she says. "The full power mode is much stronger than you would expect for something so small too."

You only need a slick of the best lube to feel the benefits of this adult toy, our tester also said. Inexpensive and hands-free, it’s just the thing if you and your partner need an extra boost, especially in moves where additional stimulation is beneficial. While it’s not too intimidating to bring into the bedroom, the only downside is that if your partner is particularly well-endowed, it might feel too tight for him, our tester said. 

This couple’s pick comes also with a travel pouch, which is also handy seeing as it also has a travel lock, ensuring you can store sex toys safely and it won’t go off unexpectedly when you’re on a weekend away.

Best bullet vibrator

Designed for solo use or with a partner, the best bullet vibrators tend to be about the same size as a tampon and the girth of your thumb. In the rabbit vibrators vs clitoral stimulators, they certainly sit on the side of clitoral stimulation as they're vibrators mainly designed for external use on the clitoris and the erogenous zones, such as the nipples and perineum.

Durex Intense Delight Vibrating Bullet


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8. Durex Intense Delight Vibrating Bullet

Best battery-powered vibrator

Specifications

Material: Smooth ABS (plastic)
Dimensions: 92mm x 22mm
Charge time: N/A, battery operated
Running time: 5 hours, but depends on battery brand
Waterproof: Yes
Patterns: 1
RRP : £16

Reasons to buy

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Good for first-timers
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Less than £20
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Quiet
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Waterproof
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Super affordable 

Reasons to avoid

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You might become bored quickly 
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Not rechargeable

There's nothing wrong with keeping things simple and that's why I loved the Lovehoney Intense Delight Vibrating Bullet when I tried it for myself. As one of the best sex toys for beginners, it's a perfect pick as it's so easy to use with a simple button on the bottom of the toy to turn the vibe on/off. 

There's only one speed setting though so if you want something with a little more range, go for the the Maya or the So Divine bullet vibrator.

The Vibrating Bullet from Durex is a real bargain nonetheless - but that's not the main reason why it features as the top bullet on my best vibrator list. It comes with a battery that lasts up to five hours, so it’s ready to use as soon as you open it. This toy is also waterproof so you can use it in the bath and shower, and it's really quiet when in use. 

So Divine bullet vibrator

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9. So Divine Afternoon Delight Bullet Vibrator

Best cheap vibrator

Specifications

Material: Plastic
Dimensions: 90mm
Charge time: 3 x LR44 (batteries included)
Running time: Depends on batteries
Waterproof: No
Patterns: 10
RRP: £13.99

Reasons to buy

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Very easy to use with a single button
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Multiple modes to choose from
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Cheaper than others at under £15

Reasons to avoid

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Made of hard plastic

Looking for a cheap and cheerful bullet vibrator? The So Divine Afternoon Delight Bullet Vibrator comes in at under £15 and has 10 different vibration modes made up of three speeds and seven patterns. This can make it difficult to roll through the settings in the heat of the moment. Otherwise, it's a great experience.

Unlike other bullet vibrators though, it's not USB rechargeable. You'll need batteries on hand to make this one work and the batteries you buy will dictate how long the toy lasts in the bedroom. It's also made of hard plastic, unlike the Durex pick, meaning it feels a little tougher on the intimate areas without the benefits of bullets made from metallic materials.

Use on its own by yourself or with a partner, the So Divine Afternoon Delight Bullet Vibrator makes for the perfect easy-access accompaniment. The little bullet would also fit snugly into a harness if you're looking for an accompaniment to one of the best lesbian sex toys, measuring under 100mm. 

Best rabbit vibrator

The best rabbit vibrators were made famous in the 90s, popularized by the hit television show Sex and the City. They target both the G-sport and clitoris to create one strong, blended orgasm. 

Lelo Enigma Double Sonic

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10. LELO Enigma Double Sonic

Best vibrator for a blended orgasm

Specifications

Materials: Body-Safe Silicone, ABS
Dimensions: 100mm x 50mm x 185mm
Charge time: 2 hours
Running time: Up to 2 hours
Waterproof: Yes
Patterns: 8
RRP: £114

Reasons to buy

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Intense orgasms
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Rechargeable
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Great for solo play

Reasons to avoid

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Not suitable for use with a partner
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Most expensive vibrator on the list

The Lelo Enigma Double Sonic is a unique A-spot vibrator - it stimulates the area further up the vaginal canal than the G-spot for unique waves of pleasure. The toy comes in two unique colours and there are eight vibration modes to explore, which isn't as many as other toys on this list, but more than enough.

"I love this toy - it's one of my new favourites. The design hits the right spots and you do very little. The vibrations on the Lelo Enigma Sonic don't actually touch your clit with waves of air pushed from the toy to stimulate the area, rather than vibrators. It's intense but not too much because it doesn't directly touch it," says our tester Mandy Ruther.

"But I have a warning for you - if you don't like penetration, this isn't the toy for you. Look elsewhere for 'air' toys [like the Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3] that offer clitoral stimulation without this penetration," says Mandy.

Read our full review of the Lelo Enigma Double Sonic vibrator

Lelo Ina Wave 2

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11. Lelo Ina Wave 2

Best rabbit vibrator overall

Specifications

Material: Silicone
Dimensions: 200 x 650 x 45 cm
Charge time: 120 minutes
Running time: 120 minutes
Waterproof: Yes
Patterns: 12
RRP: £125

Reasons to buy

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Double stimulation 
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Waterproof
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Easy to clean
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USB rechargeable 

Reasons to avoid

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Loud when in use

For a rabbit vibrator that ticks all the boxes, try the Lelo Ina Wave 2. It's available in three different colours and comes with all the vibration settings you'll need, with settings to allow for independent movement of the head and body of the vibrator. 

The body is attached flexibly to the rest of the vibrator, so it bends and adapts to your angles as you insert it. The round nub of the head, rather than rabbit-shaped ears, means there's a feeling of general pressure more than direct stimulation. But it still feels great, says Mandy Ruther, who tried and tested the Lelo Ina Wave for us.

"I enjoyed Lelo’s combination of internal and external stimulation. It adapted to my shape, and let me control the position and stimulation with easy navigation, and gave me easy orgasms every time. No complaints here. But it only really works if you want the dual stimulation - the shape means that it doesn’t work as a standalone vibrator. For this, you may want to have a look at a wand vibrator," she says.

The Lelo Ina Wave 2 is discreet noise-wise when used just in vibration mode, but as our tester says, it's much louder the minute you step things up and utilize the toy's WaveMotion technology. Keep it on vibration mode only if you're looking to stay quiet, she suggests.

Read our full review of the Lelo Ina Wave 2 here.

Happy Rabbit G-Spot Rechargeable Rabbit best Vibrator


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12. Happy Rabbit G-Spot Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator

Best rabbit vibrator for intense vibrations

Specifications

Material: Silicone
Dimensions: 240mm x 133mm x 38mm
Charge time: 150 mins
Running time: up to 120 mins
Waterproof: Yes
Patterns: 15
RRP: £49.99

Reasons to buy

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Lots of modes to choose from
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Quiet in use
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Multiple colours available on Amazon

Reasons to avoid

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Intense settings

Rabbit vibrators are some of the best vibrators out there for a blended orgasm. This is when you have two different types of orgasm at the same time (usually a clitoral orgasm and an internal or G-spot orgasm). Rabbits are perfect for achieving this because they’re designed to stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot at the same time. 

For me, this is the best rabbit vibrator to buy if you're looking for a one-and-done purchase. It ticks all the boxes and then some. Complete with an easy-control button, this vibrator has 15 modes that make the shaft and the bunny ears move at different times. It’s quite fierce at times so it can make you orgasm in a matter of seconds, which can be a positive or negative, depending on how you look at it. It's not great if you're extra sensitive down below.

It's powerful and not for the faint-hearted. Even the shaft shape is a bit overwhelming, despite the cute rabbit-shaped features, so you'll need to use plenty of lube to make this work for the first time.

See my full Happy Rabbit G-Spot Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator review

Best G-spot vibrator

G-spot vibrators come in all different shapes and sizes. Some are rabbits that work the G-spot and the clit at the same time, some are more dildo-shaped and just focus on the one spot, while others are egg-shaped and work as the best app-controlled vibrators.

Hot Octopuss Kurve

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13. Kurve by Hot Octopuss

Best vibrator for G-Spot orgasms

Specifications

Material: Silicone ABS
Dimensions: 194mm x 82mm x 42mm
Charge time: 2 hours
Running time: 2 hours
Waterproof: Yes
Patterns: 5
RRP: £89.95

Reasons to buy

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Super soft and flexible
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Deep rumbles
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Good variation of vibes
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Great to use in a couple

Reasons to avoid

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Slightly noisy
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Fiddly to use at times

Strong, deep vibrations and super soft, this traditional-looking sex toy is the perfect shape for penetration, making G-Spot orgasms almost guaranteed. No wonder it made it onto my best vibrator roundup.

The Kurve goes one step further than this though as it comes with special dual-motor technology - simply put, this nice-and-punchy penetrator has both bass and treble settings for really rumbly vibrations throughout. The treble controls the vibrator tip, while the bass makes the shaft rumble. It means the combination of vibes feels endless, so you won’t get bored quickly. The only downside is that while the controls are raised so you can feel them easily, there are four buttons to control instead of the usual “up and down” typical of most G-spot vibrators, making it slightly less intuitive.

The best bit about this adult toy, and the reason I love it so much, is the bulbous end is super soft (and I mean that - it’s softer than anything else I've ever tried), so great for using on your clitoris or during foreplay with your partner. Plus, it’s fully waterproof, so your fun doesn’t have to stop in the shower or hot tub. Two hours of battery life may seem like a long time, but the Kurve is so addictive that you’ll need to keep charging it. 

How we tested and selected the best vibrator

  • Effectiveness: We tested each vibrator to see whether it worked to effectively stimulate the intended area or whether it was all just buzz. This is often down to personal preference and everyone's different, but if it worked for our testers then the vibe was a contender. 
  • Beginner or advanced: Was the vibrator better suited for beginners or those more advanced and used to using sex toys? This was based on whether the toy was easy to turn on and off, easy to use, and whether it came with all the necessary charging essentials.
  • For solo or partner use: We tested each vibrator to see whether it was a better fit for masturbation or use with a partner. For example, remote vibrators are often best controlled by someone else, while rabbits are easier for solo play. 
  • Charging: How easy was the vibe to charge and how long did the battery last? There's nothing worse than getting to the beginnings of a climax, only for your buzz to fade out, so we tested how easy it was to charge each of the vibes. We also noted whether there was any warning of a low battery, and how long the battery lasted after the warning.  
  • Waterproof or splashproof: Many vibrators are resistant to water these days, meaning you can take them into the shower, but we noted whether each of the vibrators was fully submergible or splashproof and whether it could be cleaned with water or not.
  • Discreet packaging: Using a vibrator is nothing to be ashamed of - but it's maybe not something we want the neighbours to know about. So, we noted whether each of the vibrators arrived in discreet packaging or if the brand logo and contents were advertised on the outside.
  • Originality: Sometimes a rabbit just needs to be a rabbit but with hundreds of different models available, we noted whether a vibe had something unique about it that set it apart from the others. For anyone looking to try something new, these are the ones to go for.

How to choose a vibrator

  • Decide what kind of vibrator you want: This is all about what type of stimulation you want. Do you just want to focus on the clitoris? Then a clitoral stimulator or bullet vibrator will be the best pick. Whereas if you want dual stimulation, a rabbit vibrator or a combination of a G-spot and finger vibrator may be a better option. Looking to engage in visual or audio erotica while you play, a remote control vibrator could be for you.
  • Think about whether you want to try a classic vibrator or something new: "Think about exploring other parts of your body with your vibrator too," says Ness Cooper, sexologist, and one of the experts we consulted for this best vibrator buying guide "You may find that you have some hidden erogenous zones that you didn’t know about." 
  • Always choose a reputable brand: There are many great sex toys for sale on marketplaces like Amazon but you should only ever buy from a trusted retailer. Not only will it be safer for your body, but these brands will have standards they need to uphold. They'll also have more reviews and more real-life testing experiences to learn from. 
  • Read the reviews: "Reading reviews can be very helpful, not only because they can give you insight into a sex toy's quality but many are packed with tips on how to use it. Check out a couple before you decide on choosing a vibrator as it'll give you a better idea of what to go for," says Cooper, who is also the founder of The Sex Consultant.
  • Try a bundle: "Look into bundles and multipacks of sex toys, as these can be a great way to explore different shapes, sizes, textures, and vibrations," says Cooper. 
  • Take a look at the returns policy: If you're buying a vibrator for the first time, it's always worth checking the returns policy. Lovehoney, for example, offers a total refund on all products (whether they've been used or not) within 30 days, while others will only offer a refund if the product is as good as new.
Ness Cooper
Ness Cooper

Ness Cooper is a clinical sexologist and therapist, trained in sex education and pelvic floor biomechanics. She is registered under the International Society for Sexual Medicine and the American Board of Sexology as a clinician in private practice.

Grace Walsh
Health Channel Editor

Grace Walsh is woman&home's Health Channel Editor, working across the areas of fitness, nutrition, sleep, mental health, relationships, and sex. She is also a qualified fitness instructor. In 2024, she will be taking on her second marathon in Rome, cycling from Manchester to London (350km) for charity, and qualifying as a certified personal trainer and nutrition coach. 

A digital journalist with over six years experience as a writer and editor for UK publications, Grace has covered (almost) everything in the world of health and wellbeing with bylines in Cosmopolitan, Red, The i Paper, GoodtoKnow, and more. 

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